Taking care of yourself should be your number one priority. Being available to others is probably important to you, yet if you are not fully charged and able to fully participate in your life's relationships as a sibling, partner, parent, daughter/son, cousin, aunt/uncle, and/or a grandparent then you may need some extra help. This is where counseling can come into play. Meeting with a counselor can enrich your knowledge about you. Providing you with what you need to better define your role(s) within the various relationships in your life.
Consider making yourself the priority in your own life and begin taking the time you need to better understand you!
William A. Moulton, III
SWFL Counseling, LLC